[Read: 14 secrets to discover your self-worth] #2 Demand respect. As women, we have to work a bit harder to gain the respect of others. If someone doesn’t respect you or what you stand for, get rid of them. If you don’t have confidence, being a high value woman won’t be easy.
You don’t need those types of people in your life and if you don’t have them around, people will start to value you more. You can only fake it until you make it for a little while.
This mindset is exactly what’s holding you back from being this high value woman. You have so much going for you and so many men would be lucky to have you.
Once you realize that and start to own it, you will be the type of woman all guys want.
It’s not enough to just have respect to be a high value woman.
He can’t respect you right off the bat, then he doesn’t deserve you. This allows you to be powerful, while also maintaining your soft, feminine side. When you’re busy, they’ll feel like they have to schedule time with you far in advance because they don’t want to miss out. [Read: How to say no and stop being a people pleaser] #11 Be respectful.This isn’t something you can really give chances for. When people don’t meet your standards, get rid of them. If you only keep people around you respect your standards, you’ll only have people who truly value you. Engage in a fun and adventurous life and maintain that even when you’re with a guy. [Read: 12 ways to get a life and finally start living for yourself] #7 Be passionate. And this has nothing to do with being in bed together. If you truly have a differing opinion or don’t want to do something, just say no.If a guy treats you with disrespect even once, drop him. Set those standards and don’t let anyone fall beneath them. Having passion in everything you do is far more likely to make people see you as a high value woman. They put forth maximum effort and show the world they care. Don’t cancel plans just because he wants to do something last minute. You have a life and you’re not free for him whenever he beckons. A lot of women think the key to getting guys to like them is to just agree with whatever they say. Saying no and standing your ground creates respect. The problem is, a lot of women aren’t sure how to be that.Sure, you see these confident, powerful women around but usually, you don’t see any men accompanying them.