Self esteem and dating
Maslow suggested that people need both esteem from other people as well as inner self-respect.
Both of these needs must be fulfilled in order for an individual to grow as a person and achieve self-actualization.
Instead of one rejection at a bar on a Saturday night, the popularity of online dating gives users many more opportunities to feel rejected faster.
This paradigm presumes that we are incomplete and require a partner to make us whole, and feeds into the "hole in the soul syndrome," a core sense of insufficiency leading to feelings of emptiness, neediness and self-reproach.
“Social rejection and physical pain are similar not only in that they are both distressing, they share a common representation in somatosensory brain systems as well,” the study’s authors wrote.
You send a message to a match that goes unanswered. Basically, our brains can’t tell the difference between a broken heart and a broken bone.
If you respect your needs, your partner will as well.
If you listen to and honor your inner messages, your partner will respect your inner radar.
In psychology, the term self-esteem is used to describe a person's overall sense of self-worth or personal value.
In other words, how much you appreciate and like yourself.