Play hard to get while dating
It’s manipulative and unfair, and frankly, widowed who do this are the worst kinds of assholes. If the idea of dating makes you nauseous, or seems like something best put up on a shelf for the time being, there’s nothing wrong with that.The point is that the days of donning mourning for public displays of grieving for specific periods of time are long over.
So does that mean that playing hard to get is always the way to go? The men were less attracted to women who were viewed as "hard to get," meaning they just didn't want to date anyone.
The majority of men I met through it were varying degrees of depressing in their hunt for on-call girlfriends.
It was while taking a break from dating that Rob appeared.
I signed up for wasn’t a good format fit for me, and I abandoned the effort after a few weeks and only meeting a police officer who looked like Lurch with a bad comb-over.
Next I tried to cultivate a dating minded relationship with an industrial tech teacher I’d met through my master’s program that summer.