My girlfriend is dating others
i just feel that she would rather be with them than me. i don’t know The other issue we have is that we sleep together at night but now recently she has started to say she dosn’t want to sleep with me because she can’t sleep. i love her very much but i just want her to be happy.
i have no problem with that either its just she is getting cranky and she doesn’t want me to hang out with her and she never calls any more. A: It sounds to me like maybe your girlfriend wants to take a break but doesn’t want to break it to you so she’s doing things that will make you be the one to call a halt.
Maybe she can’t stand the idea of hurting you but also can’t handle making a commitment.
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We get to see each other maybe once every few months.
She's having sex with two guys, and she's in romantic-yet-nonsexual relationships with two other guys.
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I mean I respect him as a man and he was nothing but respectful to me.
The only rule that we have so far is that she has to practice safe sex.
I'm wondering if there's anything else that we need to discuss, or any other rules that would be smart to make.
People thought I was taking offense to Geek_Lover's comment, which is see polyamory as being sluts), but you don't think that your gf being with 4 other guys is a slut. At the time I posted my comment, the highest rated comment was this one. But if there's levels of communication that you find mandatory, make sure to nail them down explicitly This is something that I'm confused about, because I'm actually most comfortable letting her do her own thing.
Firstly, I don't get your logic, secondly, you don't need to personally relate to something to give advice, you sometimes just have no idea about the subject and point to some people who might now. That has since changed, after I invoked the wrath of the r/polyamory downvote squad. Your second point is perfectly valid, however, and I concede that you are correct and I am wrong on that count. I always hear that constant communication about everything is necessary for a poly relationship to work, but for me, I just feel like knowing that she still loves me is all that I really need.