Man code dating friends ex
Now, have you ever had someone you had a relationship with that other people didn’t approve of… People would say they didn’t like the person and they would give a reason. It was yours – they didn’t know the person in the way you knew them. and frankly, you didn’t want to explain it to them because really it’s none of their business (and they probably wouldn’t see your point of view anyway).
The first time you would take their opinion into consideration (because after all, the person who said it to you is probably someone that you know cares for you.) But regardless of their opinion, it didn’t change yours. Still, you appreciated their sentiment since you knew it was said out of their love and concern for you. Now you’re getting annoyed – they don’t know that person how you know them!
It was insecurity at its finest, and it’s not a male thing- it’s a human thing. I needed to learn to trust my own instincts – to trust that I would know something was wrong if my relationship was bad, not because I felt jealous or uncomfortable about a relationship she had.
Frankly, people are going to do whatever they want to do anyway.
After you heard their opinion once, that was enough.
Now you’re starting to resent them saying anything to you…
Now I only have limited information, but in past situations like this women have told me it stems from the fear that he might have feelings for her or that he’s not totally over her.
Worrying about what they could do just throws away any chance for enjoying your own life. Anyway, I’m just sharing how I felt when I was in this sort of situation.Then the poor girl would get a text or something from her ex-boyfriend/friend and I would explode into an angry tirade about it.I regret it – it was destructive and never ever helped my relationship. I handled (because it was my problem, not hers.) The truth is that when I was in that situation, I didn’t manage my fears. It was like, I was so afraid of the idea that she could have been doing something and playing me for a fool that I felt compelled to snuff out any relationship she had that made me uncomfortable.They’re disrespecting my ability to make a decision based on my evidence and what I see in front of me.So my opinion is to not respond to whatever his situation is with his ex…