Downside of dating a beauty
When I feel so overwhelmed and suffocated by my own problems I go completely cold. All I want is to get out of the life situation that I feel is so unbearable, in this case it happened to be my job/financial situation. The hardest thing in the world can be to accept that ultimately they need to solve it for themselves.The best way you can help is to just be present with them and not Let me make a distinction of what I am NOT saying here: I am not saying to reassure him. I am not saying to feel sorry for him or to pity him. I’m saying just be willing to be there with him and give him the space to just be.There have been times that I had been so dissatisfied with my work situation that just thinking about my work made me feel sick to my stomach.It didn’t matter whether or not a girlfriend or anyone else thought I was great, I simply didn’t feel like I was measuring up to my own standards.I am fine having dates that are economical and have let him know this.However, I believe him to have a strong ‘male gene’ when it comes to who the provider should be. He’s been going on less dates with you and he’s been sharing his financial difficulties with you., a lot of beautiful women are jacked but no one comments on it, since to the characters it is the norm for them to see characters like that, despite the fact that they are still Ms Fanservices who go above and beyond the call of duty in some cases.A quick litmus test for this trope is: If the answer to all four above is "yes," the character qualifies for this trope.
I like this man very much, I enjoy his company and he is incredibly kind.On the other hand, if you accept him, he’ll probably see things for the illusion that they really are.He’ll (eventually) see that it doesn’t really matter and he’s making an emotional issue out of nothing.The point I’m making here is that this is his complex, not yours. Don’t make his problem into your problem – he needs to figure it out.On a personal note, I’ve fallen into this type of thinking before.