Dating single moms is a bad idea
First it will start off with having to pay for babysitters, and then she will want to have “dates” on which the child(ren) will come along.So not only will you not be getting sex, but you’re going to have to hang out at Chuck E.A woman without a child has much more freedom to be available for you.An unmarried mother should put her child(ren) first.Even if you’re just dating her and don’t want to get married, if the father(s) of the child(ren) is/are in the picture, that is likely going to be even more of a hassle for you.Even if a biodad isn't in the picture right now, he can always resurface and wreak havoc unless he's dead.The child is already dealing with not having a mother and father married to each other and living together, and needs parental attention.That child does not need to compete with you, and you don’t need to compete with that child.
Unless she was widowed because her husband was killed through no fault of his own (as opposed to guys who committed suicide, or had unhealthy lives, or were involved in crime), she picked the wrong man and/or treated him like crap.
Second marriages have a higher failure rate than first marriage.
Marrying a woman with minor children gives you about a 70% chance of getting divorced. Some people stay legally married, but miserable.8) You don’t want to deal with the child’s father.
Cheese’s AND pay for the child’s meals and entertainment.
Depending on what is happening with the child’s biological father, how much time the child spends around you, paying for the child, and buying gifts for the child (think birthdays, Christmas, etc.), you can end up getting tagged for child support.