Dating shorter guy weird
And since I also have a wider frame, I've always felt a bit stockier than I'd like.That's low-key why I always feel the need to have my hair with a bit of body — to make up for lost ground. They can be more insecure."In high school, I dated a guy who was 5'6" and I noticed that he was really into manly things like working out and muscle cars, more so than his tall friends.
Meredith: I'm a trans woman who's 5'5", so average height for women in the States and shorter than most trans women I know.As someone who mostly — though not exclusively — dates men, I feel like my height has helped me a lot with dating, because men unconsciously perceive me as "normal," and I don't activate their unconscious transphobia as badly.I've been told more than a few times that "there's no way I can tell you're trans," and that helps men feel comfortable dating me.My height isn't a purely aesthetic feature you can comment on candidly, like a coat or a hat.It's a part of myself I've fought, manipulated, resented, and struggled to embrace for over half of my life.