Dating for shy people hentia dating games
The nervousness inhibits their ability to take action in the direction they want to go.They want to talk to a particular guy, but they can't.Or they may really want to date someone, but wimp out and say no when they're asked out.
It mainly comes from absorbing the skewed portrayals of dating from the media and society (sappy love songs, melodramatic romance movies, tales of princesses and brave knights, talk of meeting 'The One' and being happy and blissful forever, etc.) A reader told me this, in response the article I wrote on the issues shy guys go through. In that other article I talked about how guys who are shy with women often spend a lot of time thinking about how they can get out of their rut and finally have some success with dating.
This piece was a little different to write for me, since being a guy, I didn't have the benefit of being able to draw on my firsthand experiences to inform my points (though you'll still see me interjecting a male perspective in parts).
Instead I had to rely on my observations and research on what shy women go through.
Others pointed out how shy women have their own struggles as well.
This article will talk about that, with more focus put on the issues that are unique to shy women.