Dating advice for shy woman
I thought I looked ugly growing up, I was scared to smile because of my slightly crooked front teeth, and I believed my appearance was the reason no girls ever showed interest in me.
And to top it off, for years I was extremely insecure.
The reason why I’m explaining to you how a man’s attraction system works is so you realize that attraction is not a choice. For men that stimulus is usually visual: long shiny hair, straight white smile, big innocent eyes, a curvy body, etc.
Now here’s where all this science becomes useful to you…
When I was first trying to overcome my shyness around girls… It’s more about finding people who have compatible values, lifestyle, and personal energy. I had to overcome many of my fears and build new conversation skills. If we’re going to be honest, it’s a woman’s appearance first and foremost.(Side note: Even though I often meet random girls in the daytime, I’ve accepted that the vast majority of these conversations will never lead to dating or a girlfriend. I had to learn how to become more comfortable with myself and comfortable connecting with other people. A cute face, nice breasts, round hips, soft skin, a certain walk.But it is a great way to improve your social skills. Men are wired to feel attraction to a woman whose body displays signs of fertility, health and youth. Guys can like a girl a lot just because of how she looks… Now, I’m not saying that looks are everything to men, but they’re the primary thing that attracts us to a girl in the first place.Meeting people at a business or networking event feels pretty easy when you’ve already gotten past the fear of rejection of talking to beautiful women who could reject you.) Write down a list of 5 places you could go to meet compatible women. I want you to now imagine a girl or woman you have a crush on. Only after we find a girl physically attractive are we open to being even more won over by her personality, common interests, etc. It wired us to be attracted to a women likely to produce healthy kids with great genes.If you’re sitting at home all day, then the rest of this article won’t help you much. I had a couple part time jobs where I met a dozen more. I’m sure you can’t think of a time when a girl you were totally physically not attracted to suddenly won you over with her sense of humour. For example, ever noticed how the woman is almost always a few years younger than the man in any couple? Because a woman who is younger was a lot more likely to have a healthy pregnancy in the distant past. It was true a few thousand and a few million years ago.