Dating a guy in a band
HOW WOMEN MISINTERPRET MENWithout an understanding of how men are like rubber bands, it is very easy for women to misinterpret a man's reactions.
A common confusion arises when she says "Let's talk" and immediately he emotionally distances himself.
Likewise, when a man has stretched away his full distance, he will return with a lot of power and spring.
When he pulled away she did not run after him or even think something was wrong. The more she began to understand his changing feelings and needs, he became more confident in his love. The secret of Maggie and Jeff's success was that they understood and accepted that men are like rubber bands.
She told me, "One minute he was so attentive, and then the next he didn't even want to talk to me. By running after his, she was preventing him from ever feeling that he needed her and wanted to be with her.
I have tried everything to get him back but it only seems to make matters worse. She realized that she had done this in every relationship. By trying to maintain intimacy she had prevented it.
When the rubber band is stretched twelve inches there is nowhere left to go but back.
And when it returns it has a lot of power and spring.