Dating a clueless man
I don’t care if you’re just getting to know one another or if you’ve been together for years and years…really listen to what she’s saying. When those moments happen, own them and encourage yourself to return to your “best” self. She’s going to find out and it will make you look like a fool every time.Make sure you’re not distracted and don’t try to multi-task. This requires you to know, in advance, what your best self is. Instead, be upfront about who YOU are and live in accordance with your priorities as much as you can.Learn from the past but don’t get bogged down in it.Other men call themselves “clueless” as a kind of excuse for being insensitive or even arrogant. Be aware if you tend to cover over your rude or disrespectful comments or actions by saying, “I can’t help it, I’m clueless!Checking your phone to read texts or peering over her shoulder at sports scores are NOT ways to tune in to the woman you’re with, by the way. The woman who is a match for you and what you stand for will resonate with this and then you will have the benefit of being genuine and having a great relationship too.Invite yourself to be genuinely interested in what she’s saying. About Otto Collins Otto Collins teaches the secrets to lighting up their woman and offers men’s marriage advice.Maybe it's time to appreciate being a little more thoughtful, and a little less frantic.
So far the common theme in both songs—"Shake It Off” and “Blank Space”—is Tay poking fun at her “serial dater” reputation created by a long string of exes.Most of the dating wisdom I have absorbed over the years has been from observing other people’s relationships—learning what works and what doesn’t—and internalizing the lessons learned.I watched my sisters’ and friends’ boyfriends come and go, I saw the dynamics of my parents’ marriage, and yes, I dated a boy or two here and there.Stop selling yourself short and stop killing your own confidence by obsessing about what happened in the past. If you approached a woman in a particular way and it didn’t work out too well, maybe it was your approach and maybe it was just a bad time with this particular woman.Think about what happened and decide if that approach is something you want to try again.